To continue the song – “Better wear a Latex” works for most… Unless you are like Myself allergic to Latex!! (thanks Mom for the allergy) Oh, but condom companies offer Skyn, Lamb, & other resources luckily for your protection. Protection… From sexually transmitted diseases, of course… But wait… According to the FDA.gov anything other than Latex Condoms Do NOT Protect against diseases, but Only Pregancy!?! Plus, they Do NOT Test them Anally for approval against STDs stating, “Condoms provide some protection, but anal intercouse is simply too dangerous to practice” (well thank you surgeon general) …BUT… I get tested every 14 days… Which is really far more than the average citizen in the United States of America, as well as, the Entire Planet!!!
Sex is something we all do… No matter the gender or the preference we are ALL Carnal in desires of the flesh. How we go about practicing this fulfillment is where we vary. If you’re lucky enough to be in a monogamous relationship with your partner I still believe in once a year testing… At Least!! And if you are looking at beginning a New Sexual relationship you should Both be tested so you know going into it where you stand. Is testing expensive, does it take a long time… I don’t know compare that to the price you’ll pay if you Do Contract a disease… Fortunately even our worse STD which is HIV+ to AIDs is no longer a death sentence!! (It will require you to get a non-porn “real” job though). Thankfully there are resources with free testing & medication options to control the virus from destroying and killing your body!! (Google it people)
Why bring up this subject?! Well recently the Porn Industry has been experiencing a high amount of STDs including positives for HIV. (Which when a positive is confirmed we require All Studios to cease production until all performers have been retested and cleared) AGAIN we test as regularly as 14 days so we can contain any spread of diseases to other performers, as well as, significant others we may have at home. The Government, State Departments, and I wish to believe meaning well others think that Condoms are the Save ALL… Again go back to my first paragraph… You’re NOT very bright (uneducated using assumptions ) or you’re just looking to try and stop porn from being produced?! Produced where? Here in the states? Because I don’t know if you realize Porn is Worldwide, not just California or Miami… If you see pornography as Obscene, you have Every Right to feel that way, BUT I don’t attack you with False Information or Lack of knowing you’re day to day actions. We Are ALL Sinners!! No One is Perfect!!
Who am I to talk about anything?! Am I Perfect… Fuck NO!!! I can say I’ve Never Done a single Illegal Drug, Not because I’m better than Anyone, But because I saw the damage it had done to a family member and swore to never even try it. The last Off-Camera relationship I had with someone I made sure he was tested and shared my same information. Why? Because I respect Myself, as well as, the performers I work with everyday!!
I am also going to vent on something that is Very Close to me… Hatred and/or Ignorance! When we get something as scary as HIV+ results my follow performers begin to almost bash and belittle others performers publicly and privately who are openly bi-sexual and tested… Saying hurtful rude things that are just Mean- STOP!!! Especially on Public forums like Twitter… I know how upsetting it is… especially when you lose work do to it… but please bite your fucking tongue!!! By the way for some of you Newer Performers who come to set and talk all this smack out of “disgust” that a male/female performer would like TGirls or same sex “On-camera” but you’re working with a guy/girl who has done it “On-camera” and you didn’t know or just “Off-camera” how Big of an Ass do you look?!
I’ve been in this industry almost 6 years… October 15, 2013 will be the day actually… I can say I’ve never judged anyone on sexual preferences, I may have said something didn’t arouse me… Or even wasn’t for me… But to throw a stone is Childish!! Especially when you suck the same dick as everyone else has… Porn is a family… We are only as good as our weakest link… We are Very forgiving and accepting because we are a bunch of Misfits, Sex Addicts, Some Smokers, Drinkers, even our Partiers but they are Ours!!! Do a better job of protecting it, Please! Most of our society is looking for ways to belittle us… Lets not give them an open invite!!!
Love For ALL